How to feel comfy & confident during your boudoir session
Are you considering a boudoir photography session but feeling a little nervous? You’re not alone! As a professional boudoir photographer, I understand that most of us are not models and that stepping in front of the camera can feel very intimidating, let alone in lingerie (or even less). But here’s the truth: boudoir photography is for EVERYONE! Whether you’re booking a bridal boudoir session, a self-love experience, or a sexy photoshoot for your partner, this guide will help you feel confident, comfortable, and empowered during your shoot.
One of the most common questions I get is: “What should I wear for my boudoir photoshoot?” The answer? Whatever makes you feel amazing! If you are more of the curled up and cozy with a book type, an oversized sweater paired with your favourite book can help you channel that effortlessly mysterious and intelligent vibe. Or if you are going for a classic, seductive look you can never miss with a lace bodysuit or a satin robe. For an ethereal, sultry look you might gravitate towards something flowy or gauzy. Whatever look you are trying to captivate can be easily achieved, but what is most important is that you feel hot as hell in whatever you’re dressed in.
Hot tip: If you're unsure on colour, you can never go wrong with black!
If you’re worried about how to pose for boudoir photos, don’t be! I will not nitpick and carefully pose every shot, which can often make people feel like they are under a lot of pressure to “get it right”. I may remind you to relax your shoulders or look up and keep a strong posture from time to time but overall I prefer to have a more relaxed approach. I might ask you to move and glide through different actions like picking up a glass, or pulling the sheet away from the bed, so I can capture your real, unchoreographed movements.In this fashion I find that the photos end up being more genuine and natural, exuding a calmer, more intimate energy.
Hot tip: Not sure what to do with your facial expressions? Just close your eyes and relax your face, these images always come out looking so serene!
Looking great and being dressed in something you love is a huge part of getting the most out of your boudoir session. However, FEELING great is most important of all. Taking simple actions like getting a good night's sleep, drinking lots of water and eating something you love that morning can go a long way. Some like to give themselves a bit of extra pampering with getting their hair & makeup professionally done, which is never required, but can help give you that extra oomph!
Hot tip: Embrace your body exactly as it is—your boudoir photoshoot is about confidence and loving the hell out of yourself!
Remember, Boudoir photography isn’t just about sexy pictures—it’s about celebrating your unique beauty and strength. Whether you’re embracing body positivity, capturing a milestone, or stepping out of your comfort zone, this experience is for YOU. You don’t need to be a model to look amazing. Every curve, stretch mark, and freckle is beautiful. This is your moment to feel sexy, powerful, and confident. If you’re ready to empower yourself in a new way and book a boudoir photoshoot, I’d love to be part of your journey! My goal is to create a comfortable, fun, and empowering experience that leaves you feeling amazing.
✨ Contact me today to schedule your boudoir session and celebrate yourself! ✨